This book doesn’t show you how to pretend you don’t care – it shows you how to really not care – so you can get on with your own life and not let someone else’s lack of social skills (that’s putting it nicely!) spoil everything.

Plus it’s got lots of quizzes and cartoons and stuff, so it’s a great read.

The author offers brilliant tips for children who may be struggling at school when the usual advice of ‘ignore it’ isn’t working ~ The Sun

Unique in teaching children how to boost their self-esteem and so prevent bullying from affecting their lives ~ The Independent

At last, a book that really helps you to deal with the people in your life who are making you miserable.  This book gives sensible, practical advice ~ Back to School Bookseller

It has practical advice to stop you seeing yourself as a loser (because you’re not!) and has the support of ChildLine. This is an important book for youngsters who want to become bully-proof ~ Funday Times

This is the ideal book for teachers or counsellors working with children as well as children themselves ~ Education Today

This brill book is full of tips on how to build up your confidence and look after yourself. We like!  ~ Bubble

Offers simple strategies for building up confidence so that taunts and teasing have fewer insecurities to feed on ~ Sainsbury’s Magazine

No other author has done the job on the subject of bullying as well as Alexander does ~ Junior Magazine

Featured in 12 of the best books on bullying for children and parents on goodtoknow.co.uk in September 2020

Available in amazon, bookshop.org and other retailers